“Are you my date?”
No, not you.
You’re a dude reading this right now..
Here’s one of my favorite openers ever—something that you’ve got to have balls to do, but works every single time and gets them laughing.
Whenever I see a woman sitting alone at a table in Starbucks or at a restaurant, if I’m feeling playful and can’t come up with an observation or something to say that’s based on the moment, I’ll just sit down and say,
“Hi, are you Mary? I really hope you’re my date.”
And I’ll say that with a big smile. She will immediately laugh. Then she’ll tell you that her name is “Amy, not Mary.”
So, look at her and say, “Unbelievable. I’ve got a blind date right now, I have no idea what she looks like, and when I walked in here, well, I was hoping it was you.”
She’ll blush or smile or laugh, but she’ll be moved.
And then you just have a conversation.
I would say to her at this point, “Hey, can you just pretend you’re my blind date right now, because I’d rather hang out with you anyway, she was kind of weird on the phone.”
And then you can take the conversation wherever you want.
You get her cracking up, you get her laughing. And at that point you look at her and say,
“Hey look, I’ve got to go find this blind date of mine. I don’t know where she’s lurking right now. But you know what, I’m not a big blind date person. So, since we’ve already dated for about 5 minutes, why don’t we just go out on a second date. Give me your number and we’ll hang. “
It’s funny, it’s different, and it’s unique. It takes balls. It takes confidence and it works.
Here’s the deal guys: having balls means being able to do things that most guys won’t do. Being able to meet women is all about not just being clever in situations, but just being sure of yourself in all situations.
Confidence is one of the sexiest traits a man can have, so if you often have the balls to be bold with within, they will come to desire you because of that.
This is an opener that creates deep rapport rather quickly, but you have to be confident to pull it off.
Can you be that guy?