The most important thing to remember when you are going out looking to pick up girls is that her body language will tell you if she is interested before she ever opens her mouth.
It’s not rocket science. A girl sends all kinds of signals indicating whether you should approach her or not. All it takes is a little bit of research and study of body language.
I recommend that every single guy out there beg, borrow or buy a book on body language and memorize it. It not only will help you when you are trying to pick up girls, but it will also help you once you get into a relationship. It is a small key to helping you understand women, what they want and what they need. Once you can figure this out, you will stand out from the hordes of other men out there who are looking for women.
A book on body language will teach you all the signs of interest. You can increase your chances of success in approaching a woman ten-fold if you just know what to look for. For instance, lets say you see a beautiful woman in a bar and have already made your approach, you are feeling pretty good about the encounter because she hasn’t told you to get lost. You are thinking about making a move to try to get her to come home with you. Now when you look down, you see that her knees and feet are pointing toward the door. Do you know what this means? It means back off buddy. She does not want to be there with you. If you take that and add it to some other indicators, you will be able to tell that she is just being polite and if you try to make a move you will fail big time.
However, this doesn’t mean all is lost. Say you continue talking and you are making her laugh. She starts to play with her hair a bit and is licking her lips while she is talking to you. What does that indicate? Make your move now. She likes you and wants you. What about if she puts her purse on the bar right by your elbow? Any idea what that means? It means she likes you and is comfortable with you. Green light.
These are just a few of the hundreds of signs that men and women give each other without necessarily even being consciously aware of. It can save you so much time and money to learn them.
Your friends will think you are the Mack Daddy when you tell them which girls will respond to advances and which ones won’t. It is clear as day. If — if you speak the language. And the language is body language. For some reason over the centuries, we have lost track of how to read body language and that is really too bad. It is nature’s way of saving you a lot of pain and grief and heartache.