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The most important thing to remember when you are going out looking to pick up girls is that her body language will tell you if she is interested before she ever opens her mouth.

It’s not rocket science. A girl sends all kinds of signals indicating whether you should approach her or not. All it takes is a little bit of research and study of body language.

I recommend that every single guy out there beg, borrow or buy a book on body language and memorize it. It not only will help you when you are trying to pick up girls, but it will also help you once you get into a relationship. It is a small key to helping you understand women, what they want and what they need. Once you can figure this out, you will stand out from the hordes of other men out there who are looking for women.

A book on body language will teach you all the signs of interest. You can increase your chances of success in approaching a woman ten-fold if you just know what to look for. Body language teaches you How To Talk To A Girl.  For instance, lets say you see a beautiful woman in a bar and have already made your approach, you are feeling pretty good about the encounter because she hasn’t told you to get lost. You are thinking about making a move to try to get her to come home with you. Now when you look down, you see that her knees and feet are pointing toward the door. Do you know what this means? It means back off buddy. She does not want to be there with you. If you take that and add it to some other indicators, you will be able to tell that she is just being polite and if you try to make a move you will fail big time.

However, this doesn’t mean all is lost. Say you continue talking and you are making her laugh. She starts to play with her hair a bit and is licking her lips while she is talking to you. What does that indicate? Make your move now. She likes you and wants you. What about if she puts her purse on the bar right by your elbow? Any idea what that means? It means she likes you and is comfortable with you. Green light.

These are just a few of the hundreds of signs that men and women give each other without necessarily even being consciously aware of. It can save you so much time and money to learn them.

Your friends will think you are the Mack Daddy when you tell them which girls will respond to advances and which ones won’t. It is clear as day. If — if you speak the language. And the language is body language. For some reason over the centuries, we have lost track of how to read body language and that is really too bad. It is nature’s way of saving you a lot of pain and grief and heartache.

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When you want to pick up women at work you have to be especially carefully. If you do something wrong you might end being charged for harassment. And even if you do everything right there can be misunderstandings and a lot of uncomfortable feelings when the relationship ends.
While it might seem simpler to pick up a woman at work for some reasons (you have valid reasons to talk to her, you know her, you can find reasonable pretences to talk to her, etc.) it is in a way more complicated that picking girls in the pub or in the club because of the same reasons.
Before you go for it you should in depth weigh all pros and cons of the situation and make your decisions accordingly. First of all, decide if she is worth it. If you have doubts better move on and leave her alone. If you are sure you want to do this, go ahead but you might want to follow few of the rules about how to pick up women at work.

1. Greet her every time you see her. A simple hi or hello is the first step to getting a woman. Short greetings turn into short conversations. Be charming and unobtrusive.
2. Smile at her. Just a quick smile, no staring. Keep it simple. Your smile should make her feel comfortable and not threatened. At the same time she should not come to the conclusion that you might have some hidden agenda. Be your usual self, friendly and polite.
3. If you are lucky and this is the woman you work together on a project or in the same office and not some different department, look for any kind of opportunities to use. She did a good job on something, compliment her. Tell and show her what a good co-worker she is and how you appreciate her intelligence and dedication.
4. Don’t be afraid to ask her go with you for lunch or a cup of coffee. This is nothing unusual when it comes to co-workers. If you see she is uncomfortable, ask other co-workers to join you.
5. Once you have the opportunity to spend time together, be at your best self, flirt with her but don’t overdo it.
6. Make traditions. It can be anything. Send her good morning mails every day, or go for lunch every second day in a week, or anything that comes to your mind. You should become an integral part of your life. But don’t wait for long before you proceed to the next step. Once you cross the invisible line of becoming buddies it will be tough to get back to your initial plan.
7. Ask her out on a date. Make sure she understands you want an actual date and not one of your routine meetings.

Starting from the first date treat her as you would treat any other woman you want to pick up. Consider the company’s dating policy before proceeding to any serious steps.

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